What to Expect From a Call with a Dominatrix

A lot of men love to dominate, but nearly just as many prefer to be dominated. Being dominated by a strong and authoritative woman can be incredibly freeing for an individual who is used to being in charge and wants to be released from the responsibility that comes with that. This is why a lot of men will pick up the phone and dial a number that will put them directly in touch with an experienced dominatrix.

Before you pick up the phone and begin speaking to one of these dominating mistresses, however, there are a few things you should be prepared for. The first, and often most shocking for many, is to be prepared to be completely and utterly humiliated.

You Will Be Humiliated and Degraded
A dominatrix is not the typical sweet and sultry sexpot that other phone chat lines offer on the Internet or on the television. These ladies are experts in making a man feel degraded, humiliated, and worthless. Do not be surprised if you are:

  • Called unimaginable names by the dominatrix
  • Asked to complete ridiculous and self-degrading tasks, such as licking the phone
  • Being told to address the dominatrix by authoritative names (such as ‘master’)
  • Being told to address yourself in a demeaning way (such as ‘slave,’ ‘stupid,’ or ‘pathetic’)

Keep in mind that it is the dominatrix’s job to take your power away and make you feel helpless. Degrading and humiliating you is all part of the job.

You Will Obey Orders
Throughout the duration of the phone call you will be commanded to obey a number of orders, some of which may seem baseless and silly at times, but all of which are being given for one reason: to make you feel like dirt. She will be incredibly bossy and demand that you obey her, otherwise she may very well hang up on you and you will be left empty handed. You will also be instructed to respond to her in a certain way, such as ‘yes, mistress’ or ‘yes, my queen.’

You Will Be Punished
Those who are into sexual domination love to be punished, and this is usually the most exciting part of the call. While the women such as those on 121girls domination phone chat are not physically present to tie you up, whip your bare skin, or spank you, they will insist that you do this yourself and that you do it hard enough for them to hear it. Before you make the phone call, be prepared to have a belt, a whip, a paddle, or any other tool on hand so that you can punish yourself in a way the dominatrix says you deserve.

You Will Not Be Cared For
Regardless of how much pain you may be feeling while being punished either verbally or physically, do not expect the dominatrix to ask you how you feel or if you are hurting. This individual does not care for you at all and very likely despises your very existence. Be prepared to be told that you deserve every ounce of pain you feel.

Tips for Calling a Domination Phone Line
Calling a domination phone line is a lot different from calling your typical sex line right from the very beginning. To make the most out of your phone call, we have put together a quick list of what not to do during your call.

Do Not Fight Back
Most individuals who call a domination phone line are already submissive and have no intention of fighting back. But even if the dominatrix touches on an unknown personal issue which makes you defensive, resist the temptation to fight back and call her names or give her instructions. She is the authority figure – not you. She is also not keen on having to deal with someone who may refuse her demands and commands. This will not lead to a more intense ‘punishment’ during the call, but rather leave her annoyed and bothered by you.

Do Not Let the Line Go Silent
Nothing is worse for a dominatrix than to have a quiet ‘slave’ on the other end of the line. The phone call you share with this person is one that requires two active participants who are equally invested in the phone call. If you find yourself not knowing how to respond, a simple ‘yes, mistress’ or telling her how weak you are because you do not know what to say will suffice. Whatever you do, do not leave her hanging. Continually engage with her throughout the entire call.

Do Not Resist Answering Questions
To get a better understanding of who you are as a person, the dominatrix may open up the phone call by asking a few questions about your personal life, your fears, and your lifestyle. This is not an attempt by her or the chat line company to waste your precious time with her. The answers to these questions will allow her to provide you with a more personalised phone call, which in turn will be more pleasurable for you.

Do Not Expect a Free Call
Far too many individuals believe that they may be able to wrangle a free phone call from the phone line service if they say something like it is their birthday, they have just recently lost their spouse, or it is their first time using this service. The dominatrix on the other end of the line deserves to be paid for her time, and she absolutely does not care about your personal circumstances for any reason other than to humiliate and insult you.

Do Not Turn the Call into Something It Isn’t
Finally, do not let the fantasy of the phone call lead you to believe that the call is anything more than a chat with a woman you will never meet and see. Enjoy the phone call for what it is – a pleasurable break from the everyday pressures of daily life.

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